Sometimes people don’t understand that they’re not actually disappointed in the person. They’re disappointed in the situation. I’m sorry if anyone was ever disappointed with your situation and blamed it on you, the person. Because that isn’t fair. Or if they underestimate the cascading effects that your situations can have on you, the person.
I’ve had many ppl “disappointed” in me for similar reasons. and looking back, I feel that’s on the spectrum of narcissism. when I had my first life destroying autoimmune disease, my ‘best friend’ in HS was openly frustrated that I didn’t wear make up anymore and that I had lost so much weight and didn’t look as ‘pretty’. What a beast! I wish I would’ve ended the friendship there, once she showed her true colors, but it took me longer than that. I internalized the shame that people tried to put on me. For someone to take someone else’s life-threatening nitemare medical trauma and to make it about them is… Kind of sick. It’s really emotionally immature… beyond that, it’s cruel. it’s one thing to be disappointed in a situation, but to blame you for things you didn’t do on purpose is gross. if you didn’t do something *deliberately malicious* to these people then you did absolutely nothing wrong and they shouldn’t have treated you that way. ~ Sorry, this is the most aggressive comment I’ve ever made 😂 but I just find it horrifying when people treat others abusively
Never disappointed, never let down by you, dear friend. Each day is a blessing, a gift, regardless of what that day brings. The real issue is how we receive what that day brings. Remember, your time here is but a blink in your eternity, a moment in a long long story.
Romans 8:18-23: "For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us".
That glory and joy is coming, my precious love, and it will last for all time!
Sometimes people don’t understand that they’re not actually disappointed in the person. They’re disappointed in the situation. I’m sorry if anyone was ever disappointed with your situation and blamed it on you, the person. Because that isn’t fair. Or if they underestimate the cascading effects that your situations can have on you, the person.
I’ve had many ppl “disappointed” in me for similar reasons. and looking back, I feel that’s on the spectrum of narcissism. when I had my first life destroying autoimmune disease, my ‘best friend’ in HS was openly frustrated that I didn’t wear make up anymore and that I had lost so much weight and didn’t look as ‘pretty’. What a beast! I wish I would’ve ended the friendship there, once she showed her true colors, but it took me longer than that. I internalized the shame that people tried to put on me. For someone to take someone else’s life-threatening nitemare medical trauma and to make it about them is… Kind of sick. It’s really emotionally immature… beyond that, it’s cruel. it’s one thing to be disappointed in a situation, but to blame you for things you didn’t do on purpose is gross. if you didn’t do something *deliberately malicious* to these people then you did absolutely nothing wrong and they shouldn’t have treated you that way. ~ Sorry, this is the most aggressive comment I’ve ever made 😂 but I just find it horrifying when people treat others abusively
“I want to write my Grief on a tiny piece of paper and rip it up and throw it into a moving sea.” wowwww 👏 ♥️
Never disappointed, never let down by you, dear friend. Each day is a blessing, a gift, regardless of what that day brings. The real issue is how we receive what that day brings. Remember, your time here is but a blink in your eternity, a moment in a long long story.
Romans 8:18-23: "For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us".
That glory and joy is coming, my precious love, and it will last for all time!