No need to feel conflicted on the term. There's an easy (unofficial) set of rules to determine the correct term for otherwise black and white legal terms. The first one is actually legality in it's own right, and that is how long have you two been together? If you've been together 7 or more years he's legally your husband. Two is more complicated, but easy to determine. How deeply do you love him? Deeply in love, and devoted you can use husband. Two people who care about each other without the deep love and devotion is partners. Three is the most complicated, and that's which term do you feel he is. This should be strictly a yes or no based on your conscience. Do you feel he is husband or partner completely disregarding society's definition of either? As far as communities yes the LGBTQ+ community uses the terms husband, and wife just as the straight community does. Now on to where do you fit in all of this? You fit in as the body, and amazing woman who controls, and are able to hack the amazing mind you have. You are the integral role in keeping yourself going with a malfunctioning cyborg body, and you still can enjoy the happy moments and make memories. I do have to agree with your husband (the arbitrary term I've given him) on this whole mind hacking belief side of the debate. You have somehow learned to hack your mind to be able to get to this adrenaline rush despite the pain. You are truly an amazing woman.
No need to feel conflicted on the term. There's an easy (unofficial) set of rules to determine the correct term for otherwise black and white legal terms. The first one is actually legality in it's own right, and that is how long have you two been together? If you've been together 7 or more years he's legally your husband. Two is more complicated, but easy to determine. How deeply do you love him? Deeply in love, and devoted you can use husband. Two people who care about each other without the deep love and devotion is partners. Three is the most complicated, and that's which term do you feel he is. This should be strictly a yes or no based on your conscience. Do you feel he is husband or partner completely disregarding society's definition of either? As far as communities yes the LGBTQ+ community uses the terms husband, and wife just as the straight community does. Now on to where do you fit in all of this? You fit in as the body, and amazing woman who controls, and are able to hack the amazing mind you have. You are the integral role in keeping yourself going with a malfunctioning cyborg body, and you still can enjoy the happy moments and make memories. I do have to agree with your husband (the arbitrary term I've given him) on this whole mind hacking belief side of the debate. You have somehow learned to hack your mind to be able to get to this adrenaline rush despite the pain. You are truly an amazing woman.