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You know what it’s kind of sad, I don’t even think experiencing your level of pain would give some people empathy for u and I think that’s just how they are. It might give them a understanding/comprehension, but I just still don’t know if they would care about someone else’s suffering.. If someone can’t feel empathy for you right through your Instagram posts, your amazing writing or from seeing vids of the things you have gone through… I think something is just missing in them :( if someone sees your talent and beauty, and then sees the level of hell you go through daily and they still don’t give a crap, I just don’t know if they ever will :/ 🤟 ♾️

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Oh god this video… you could make a full documentary…. you really have such a gift for making these videos… 🤟

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My sweet Bailey, I've told you so many times if I could, I'd take your pain even if only for a while. Anything to give you a break, a rest, a chance to just "be". I love you, enough to suffer for you, just as Jesus did for all of us. I know when we're with Him in Heaven, there'll be no more pain or suffering, no more tears. I'm growing old, and you're so young and incredibly beautiful, if I could suffer for you it would be an honor, because I know what's coming is so much better than this life! 🙏🥰

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I’d go or I’d watch it online :)

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This is one of the huge things I try to impress on people. Feeling for someone is not a bad thing, it's not invalidating, it's not feeding some sort of deluded victim fantasy, it isn't toxic negativity, nor is it toxic positivity. No it's simply human instead. Empathy is honestly at the core of being human. Hating that someone hurts all the time, and grieving their pain with them is not calling them weak or their life worthless, it's not heroic either it's simply caring. In the end (other than some miracle cure that is all we want at the end of the day is to know someone cares. I want you to know that I care Bailey, and it hurts to see you in pain all the time. That said I will also still try to point out positives, relay my life, ask about your life, and hope together for better days. Because whilst your pain is a huge part of your life if it's not your whole life, nor does it define you and the wonderful human being you are.

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I love this! I have the same fantasy but only 24 hours. Empathy is hard to come by these days😔

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♥️

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